Little Bit O' Blog Is Better Than None At'all

I keep not blogging because I'm so busy....I think, I don't have time to upload pics, etc.... so then I find myself not bloggin at all.
So here ya go, a catch up on the past week's events minus any extras.

Thanksgiving was great. A great meal & the entire family together -- the ENTIRE family together. (pics will be posted on that, just not now...sorry).

Flynn's b'day party was Sat nite. How cute was it to see a long table w/ her & all her friends at it!! I could have scooped everyone of them up on a spoon & eaten them.....it was THAT cute!! How can she be big enough to have friends, let alone friends at a party. Aaaahh!!! (again, pics will be posted).

A long weekend with a wonderful hubby. If that's all I had & nothing else, I'd be content.

THANKSGIVING Acrostic

Three (Flynn's new age)
Health
A new church (since last year) that we love
No surgery this year
Knowing Christ
Sissy
Gabe
In love with my hubby
Volumes of blessings in my life
I have so much to be thankful for!
No hospital stays (for anyone!) this year
God (last but not least)

Happy Birthday to my Baby Girl

How did this happen?

How did that tiny baby that grew inside of me, become an independent, smart, witty little girl?

How did a helpless little baby, turn into a little person? Someone who makes sentences, makes art projects, makes her name, makes her own drink.... and makes me crazy.

Little Flynn,

Today you are three. And what you've done is given Mommy & Daddy the best three years of their lives. Before you, we thought we were happy. We thought that because we found love in each other, it couldn't get any better. Then you came along. And you taught us the real meaning of love...and happiness. And every day since, you've exercised our emotions. And made us laugh and cry and everything between.

This past year, you learned so many things. You learned how to write your name ... you learned your colors & shapes ... you learned prepositions and how to bite really hard. You learned what a spanking is and how to stomp your foot & say, "NOT FAIR!"

You are so beautiful. I know this because every stranger we see comments on you. You love to put on Mommy's make up ... but I always remind you that you were pretty before you put it on. Your big dark eyes are framed by long black eyelashes. Your turned up nose gives you the most precious profile.

In church you've just learned about Moses. Last week I caught you retelling the story about him striking the stick on the ground & it "turned into a snake." You also learned about Jacob. And most importantly about Jesus. My prayer is that you learn more about Him. And the best day of my life will be the day you make a decision for Him to be your savior.

I pray a lot of things for you....

I pray that you always know your value, that you never settle in life.

I pray that you're always surrounded by family, and friends, the kind that I've always been lucky to have.

I hope you always do things because you want to, not because of what people will think...or what you think they'll think.

I hope that you wake up every morning, thanking God that He's given you another day to live for Him. And that when you wake up, you know no pain or discomfort.

I pray that you'll always know how much you are loved. No matter what you go through, you'll never feel alone.

I pray that you have confidence and when you go for what God has planned for you, you know you'll achieve it.

Those are the things that come to my mind right now. While I sit here awake, thinking of how this past year -- and the two before that, have flown by. While you lay in your bed & quietly sleep.

Daddy helped you make a birthday chain & everyday he & I would comment that we couldn't believe that our baby was going to be three. You 'graduate' from "Parents as Teachers" & it makes us laugh, you shouldn't be too old for anything yet.

Keep making us laugh. Keep loving us & loving Bubby. Keep singing & dancing. Keep that zeal that you have right now -- your ambition & outgoingness are a couple of the many reasons that so many love you.

I love you more than you'll understand for a long long time.

Love,

Momma

My Favorite Part of the Day

You thought I was going to say NAPTIME, didn't you?

Well, it's not.

There are some days, although few & far between, when I wake up before the kids.

But on those days, I get to relish a very wonderful moment.... when I watch Flynn swaggering down the hall, straight from a deep sleep. Rubbing her eyes like a sleepy bear cub, she can barely see past the blinding light to find me. And when she does, she mutters a grovely, "Up Mom" as she motions for me to take her into my lap. I love to hold her & know that it might be the only time during the day that she'll sit still - or sit at all - on my lap.

Gabe is the same story. Although he's bound to sleep longer, he'll let me hold him & he'll lay his head on my shoulder.... I can see his binky bobbing up & down.

The moments are brief, but oh so precious.

Three Links Left on the Birthday Chain

I can not believe that in three days, my baby girl is going to be three.
I'm excited that with time, we get to explore new places, see her do new things.... but why does that mean my baby has to grow up?

Time Grabs You By The Wrist & Tells You Where To Go

Is that not profound?
Wish I could claim the quote as my own but it actually belongs to the song made popular in the 90's, "Time of Your Life".

I am not the world's best mom. I'm not the worst. But I'm trying. And next to living my life for Christ, it's the thing I think about most in my life. And I try all the time.

Yesterday at MOPS, the guest speaker said, "children are like wet cement." Yipes. Could I feel more guilty?
At the times I have yelled.
At the times I have spanked.
At the times I've said, "I'll read to you in just a minute. let me finish my work."

And this is not just a relationship. Not a friendship, in which you have a certain amount of time in which to perfect your interractions.
Flynn will only be 35.57 months today.
And Gabe is only 14.45 months today.

I only have one chance to mother. And they only have one mother. Time is fleeting. Like I said before , I want to freeze time. When I hold Gabe's long body & his legs hang off my lap, seemingly further than they did the day before, I remember.
It's going by so fast.
I don't want to have any regrets.
I want to be a good mommy today.
Or as Flynn says, "Momma."

I'm going to go.... Flynn wants me to read to her.

J & Christine's Wedding

Wow, am I behind or what??! Their wedding was 2 weeks ago. Remember, back in the day (like 6 mos ago!), when I updated my blog almost daily. Ahh....sigh....

Anywho, this was one of the most beautiful weddings I've been to. And flawless by the way. Christine was beautiful & her flower girl wasn't too shabby either ;)

Enjoy these photos.

Happy Fall

It's going by so quickly.

Thank God I have photos to savor those moments.

Time to Pray

My Aunt Alice (my mom's sister) was diagnosed last month with Multiple Myeloma (Bone Cancer). She began treatment on that day at the Bone Marrow Division at Siteman Cancer Center. And had her first chemo treatment the other day.

She withheld this for a month....My cousin was getting married (Sat.) & she didn't want to spoil his big day.
I am asking for each of you to pray for her that the chemo and meds will drive all the bad cells into remission forever. God healed my aunt from this same type of cancer in 1991.
We believe that He will heal her (Psalm 30:2: O LORD my God, I cried unto thee, and thou hast healed me) & that we will have her for many many more years. We also pray that she will not be sick with these treatments and that she will have a peace (Philippians 4:12: And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.)

Please add my aunt to your daily prayer, to your church's prayer list, to anything you can...
My family thanks for your prayers.